Update On My Progress

Before I can give you an update, let me tell you more about myself. A few months ago my lady for 6yrs decides to move to another state, I was sad to see her go, I love and miss her, but it is what it is and life goes on.

So I decided it’s the perfect time to pursue learning the Pickup Arts. All of my previous girlfriends I’ve met through social circles like family, friends, school and work. I could never just approach a woman I was attracted to and have a conversation with her. Just the thought of it would give me anxiety. In my short journey so far, I feel I have made a lot of progress.

I began this adventure by joining the local lair and starting this blog to chronicle my adventures. The lair had an event known as a Approach A Thon. This was a life changing event for me, I had a blast and experienced for the first time the fun and joy of approaching women. I learned that you don’t need a whole lot of material to start approaching women, It’s just important to get started.

If you were to never read or learn anything about the pickup arts and just focused on approaching and meeting women, you would naturally get good and find success with the ladies. Think about it, lets say you approach a few girls for the first time, will it be awkward and will you be nervous? Most likely yes, but do you think it will still be awkward for you after a few hundred approaches? Of course not, once you have hundreds of approaches under your belt, meeting and connecting with women will be more natural. All it takes is a bit of practice. Since the AAT, I’ve made approaching and meeting women part of my everyday life.

My next sticking point was not knowing where to take the conversation after the approach and I’d end up ejecting from the set. I hit the Internet for some information on what to do after the approach. I came accross lots of routine based information, telling me word for word what to say.

I quickly learned I wouldn’t be able to remember these routines let alone deliver them authentically. After this realization I started leaning towards learning all about what is known as Natural Game which doesn’t use routines. Now I’m not knocking routines, each type of game has its place. My education in Natural Game has been with Cory Skyy, Vin DiCarlo, Tim from RSD and Carlos Xuma.

Applying what I’ve learned from these teachers has changed my life. Some of my results include having sex with the girl I met at the AAT, I’m currently seeing this 20 year old virgin, this hot bartender at a restaurant I frequent has been trying to meet up with me and a bunch of other fun stuff. Basically I’ve noticed more women in my life and a bunch more trying to be. But I’m still learning and can’t wait to share my new adventures.